Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.
Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends.
Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that. Let us break down a few scenarios for you so you can have a deeper understanding of just how men think. Although we really don’t think all that deeply about much when we’re at the club.
What She’s Wearing
This tells us a lot, and regardless of what you may think or say, dressing provocatively is a choice; a choice thought about and realized by you. If the way you dress is too over the top, quality men will be concerned and will wonder if you are at the club for business rather than leisure. If what you are wearing is causing as many concerns as looks, the man of your dreams is going to look elsewhere. Dressing sexy and dressing trashy are two separate things, and not knowing the difference or understanding the message you are sending could be deterring the amount of quality men that ask you out. Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.
How She Dances
Everyone has their own inner freak, and sometimes that inner freak reveals itself on the dance floor, especially after a few drinks. However, if your dance moves are extremely risqué, you are not only going to attract the type of guy who has no plans for the future, but will only attract guys interested in hooking up after the club. This will also tell any man of your dreams that you could become an embarrassing liability at a family wedding or work function if you have a couple drinks and music starts playing. Remember, there is always a time and place for your inner freak to come out. It’s usually in private rooms with your partner, not out in the middle of the dance floor while wearing a micro-skirt. Tease & Please: 7 Lessons You Can Learn From Strippers
Who She Talks To
The men you flirt and converse with while at the club will also give a clear message to potential suitors as to what type of person you may be. If we see you flirting with numerous men to use them for a night of free drinks and endless attention, that tells us you are immature, manipulative and probably too consumed with yourself to build a long-term relationship with us. If you are actively seeking the man of your dreams, don’t let your standards fall on club night. It is possible to find the man of your dreams in a club, but not if you’re paying attention to the wrong guys. Get our e-book "The 14 Step Program to Finding and Keeping the Man of Your Dreams"
Behavior Inside and Outside the Club
Are you totally wasted, stumbling around drunk inside the club and hugging or kissing anything walking? If that sounds like you, you can bet you’ll just end up being used by men who see an opportunity for their own gratification. Being in control while having fun is sexy and shows quality men that you enjoy the moment and don’t have to rely on overloading on alcohol to have fun. Make sure you are not out in the parking lot engaging in crude sexual acts or compromising situations - you may not be with the man of your dreams, but if he walks by and notices you in a less than flattering scenario, he will be sure to stay far away from you in the future.
What you need to understand about men at a club is that there are two types. There’s the guy who’s just out hanging with his buddies. He’s not there to really meet anyone. He’s just having a good time. If he meets someone, then great. If not, then no big deal. The second guy is there for one thing and one thing only. Think National Geographic. It’s mating season. Now, these two types of men will react in very different ways to the women in the club. It takes a keen eye to spot these differences, but after reading this, you’ll catch on.
The girl who shows up to the club begging for attention by wearing extremely revealing clothing and acting extremely flirtatious will get looks from all the guys. Many of them will approach her. She’s given off a signal that MOST men will read as “easy”. They’ll look at her as the one to go after and try to bed that night. Or, they’ll exchange numbers with this woman and their ultimate goal will be to try to get her in the bedroom as soon as possible.
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